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Little sister all grown up?

Discussion in 'Open Discussion (Work-safe)' started by ScarletInMyVeins, Aug 12, 2004.

  1. ScarletInMyVeins

    ScarletInMyVeins Tanned Fat Looks Better

    Well guys I just recieved the call that I have been dreading. My little sister just got laid for the first time (she just turned 16 on the 5th) and to boot, it was without protection. The little bastard that took her innocence is a good friend of mine's little brother, which is how I found out. How do I go about approaching this because the issue of being unprotected needs to be addressed. I know that my mom'll have a heart attack if her little "princess" has a child at 16 so any help would be appreciated. If no one has any good ideas about that does anyone have a large ammount of land where I can bury two bodies?
     
  2. RugbyBuck

    RugbyBuck Our church has no bells.

    Scar - Call her out on it, in private. Make sure she knows you're serious about protection and that you'll only keep it quiet if she's responsible about it. Then call your buddy's brother and give him the no-bullshit speech. Best of luck to you both.
     
  3. ScarletInMyVeins

    ScarletInMyVeins Tanned Fat Looks Better

    well the thing is... I don't have anything to be quiet about. My parents already know about it. My mom is the one who told me (my mom is friends with his mom) I just feel that it's kinda my responsibility to do something here.
     
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  4. MililaniBuckeye

    MililaniBuckeye The satanic soulless freight train that is Ohio St Staff Member Tech Admin

    The last thing you want to do is jump in her shit, because she'll just rebel and go do it more just to spite. Sit down and tell her how you're concerned about her future and inform her of what the ramifications of getting pregnant are (raising of a baby before she's even out of school; the reduction of her social life; costs of a child including daycare, diapers, and food; possibly being abandoned by the father of the child and thus raising the child on her own; the risks of an abortion of she chooses one, etc.). If you calmly tell her about these things and tell her it's her life and it's her decision, she'll listen).

    Just read your response above which happened while I was typing. What have your parents said to her? It's far more their responsibility than yours.
     
  5. daddyphatsacs

    daddyphatsacs Let the cards fall... Staff Member

    That is a very tough call man, I'd probably intimidate him then back off.
     
  6. vrbryant

    vrbryant Ever thus to ____ers Staff Member

    I'm with rugby all the way here, only I think you definitely scare the shit out of your buddy's little brother. Maybe roll up on him in the middle of the night, blindfold him, strip him down to his skivvies, wrap him up in some blankets and duct tape it shut, throw him in the back of a pick up truck and drive him to his school, then hang him upside down somewhere where everyone will see him the next morning so they can read whatever really embarrassing message you wrote on his stomach in permanent marker. Something like, "I have a tiny pecker." You get the idea.

    That's, uh...that's just what I would do.
     
  7. AKAK

    AKAK Mayor of Turkey Balls Falls Staff Member Bookie

    If you want man, I can take one for the team here, and be sure to show her the "right" way to go about all these shenanigans. I'll just need a phone number. :wink2:

    Alright, I'm completely kidding of course.

    I'd say Mili is on the right track... the thing you need to do first is get over the obvious emotions you might be having because its your baby sister... then you need to deal with her directly and honestly about the dangers... I don't think dealing with the 'guy' here is going to do any good, she needs to be responsible for herself, and she needs to know that you trust her to be responsible for herself... not that Big Brother will just pound anyone who gets near her because she can't take care of herself... Good luck...
     
  8. LoKyBuckeye

    LoKyBuckeye I give up. This board is too hard to understand. Staff Member

    :wink: As long as you don't go overboard.

    If you confront the guy... do it calmly. A nice touch would be a baseball bat leaning up against the wall next to you (or a shot gun if you have one).

    seriously, as long as you approach her as an adult and talk to her like an adult she would be less likely to rebel against your advice.

    good luck with whatever you choose to do.
     
  9. gregorylee

    gregorylee I'd rather be napping!!

    I think this is dead on, girls are usually much more mature at that stage than guys.

    I would scare the living shit out of the guy, you remember what you were like at that age. Don't physically hurt him, but it wouldn't be a bad thing to leave some emotional scars that will never heal. If he pisses his pants you know you are on the right track :biggrin:
     
  10. ScarletInMyVeins

    ScarletInMyVeins Tanned Fat Looks Better

    I don't really know what was said last night. At the time of my original post I don't think anyone had spoken to her about it because we were all at work still. After reading everyone's posts I think it would probably be better if I stayed out of this one and let the parents handle it. OR I could go buy one of those midevil cast iron chastity belts and one of those masks that hannibal wears in Silence of the Lambs and force her to wear them untill she's 30 or so

    I really like this idea!
     
  11. osugrad21

    osugrad21 Capo Regime Staff Member

    The unprotected sex is serious...STDs are out of control in teenagers. I believe it is 1 out of every 5 teens will get one before graduation...somewhere in there at least. We had to watch a documentary as a school and I was honestly sick

    You won't stop the sex...that is reality. But you can scare the hell out of them with the stats. Pregnancy is the least of the worries
     
  12. ScarletInMyVeins

    ScarletInMyVeins Tanned Fat Looks Better

    Thanks Grad! That's not the start to my day that I wanted! :pissed:
     
  13. osugrad21

    osugrad21 Capo Regime Staff Member

    No problem...speaking of teenage STDs, I need to get to school:tic:
     
  14. DA-Bucks

    DA-Bucks Trick shot artist Former FF The Deuce Champ

    Scarlet, sweep the leg. Sweep the leg.

    Put him in a body bag, yeaaaaa!

    (sorry I just woke up)
     
  15. AJHawkfan

    AJHawkfan Wanna make $14 the hard way?

    DA-Bucks, nice reference. .....wax on wax off!
     

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