Sports
July 29, 2008
Q&A: Olivea's 'second chance' at life
From clear across the country, with little to go on but a line on a crawl across the bottom of a television screen, it didn?t sound good when Chargers right tackle Shane Olivea was suspended for four games for violating the NFL?s drug policy a few months ago. The Long Island kid had already lost his place in the Chargers? starting lineup, now it appeared things were getting worse.
It would?ve been easy - and probably was - to just assume it was another case of a troubled athlete who made stupid choices and ruined his career. But there was more to Olivea's story. There usually is.
The suspension, as you likely know, was eventually overturned and now Olivea is a Giant. A short version of his story appeared in today?s Daily News. You should read that first. Then come back here to read more of what he had to say:
Q: Do you feel like you?ve been given a second chance on you career?
Olivea: Definitely. It?s a second chance on my life. It?s a second chance on football. I?m just happy to have that opportunity. I feel very blessed and very fortunate to have that opportunity.
Q: How are things going for you, personally since you left Betty Ford?
Olivea: Oh, I feel awesome. You know, sometimes you?ve got to get knocked down to get back up. That was definitely the case with me. I?m just very fortunate that I?m here, living, breathing, and able to put on a uniform again. Whatever happens, happens, but the only thing I can control is today.
Q: How far down were you?
Olivea: I just got addicted to a pain medication. By the grace of God I had an intervention by my family and got myself checked into the Betty Ford Clinic. It?s been the best thing that ever happened to me. I have a new outlook on life, a new appreciation of life. Every day is a present and a blessing.
Q: Football players take pain medication all the time. Were you surprised you became addicted? Did you realize it was happening?
Olivea: The people close around me knew something was happening. I mean, I wasn?t the same person. You can hide a lot of things, but your real friends and real family, they know the real you. Obviously they saw a major change, a drastic change. Thank God they did. And by the grace of God I was able to get my life turned around.
Q: When you say you weren?t the same person, what do you think they saw?
Olivea: It wasn?t me. You can hide from a lot of people, but your loved ones and your family, they know you. You can?t hide from them. They know when you?re down and up and everything in between. So I?m just very fortunate I have a very loving, caring family, and I?m very fortunate the Giants gave me this opportunity to prove to myself and prove to the Giant organization that I won?t do anything to embarrass them. I?m ready to contribute in any way.
Q: Were the Chargers supportive, or did they give up on you too quickly?
Olivea: I don?t think they knew the depth of it, of what was really going on. I did a really good job of hiding it, if you will. I also asked for my release. I was going through alot and had to deal with it, and I wasn?t able to deal with it and give the daily attention that football needs to produce and play at a high level. It was outside factors that contributed to me not being able to do that.
Q: You could tell it affected you on the field?
Olivea: Oh, yeah. I got benched. I never sat in my whole life. Thank God I had a real loving family. They helped me out and get my life going again.
Q: How do you handle the future now? You are in a painful profession. Isn?t pain medication just part of your routine?
Olivea: I think there are a lot more avenues I now know of, different kinds of treatment as opposed to just taking a pill. I?m a lot more knowledgeable and more aware of the avenues I can explore.
Q: Was it one specific type of pain medication?
Olivea: Just pain medication. It wasn?t street drugs. I don?t do drugs. I know that was reported.
Q: Was there a defining moment for you in your addiction and recovery?
Olivea: Seeing my family in my living room. Seeing how hurt they were, and the pain I caused them. It was pretty humbling and gut-wrenching. Like I said, it was a hard decision, very humbling and a very difficult thing to do. But people don?t look at alcoholism and addiction as a disease, and alcoholism is a disease just like cancer. I wish people would really learn about it. People just think, ?Oh it?s will power,? but it?s really not. I?d love for people to be able to sit in on a biological or chemical lecture that I?ve had the fortune of sitting in on and learning about. It?s uncontrollable. It?s in your biological DNA. My children are going to be predisposed to it. It?s something I think about, but all I can really do is focus on today, try to be a better person today, be a clean and sober person today.
Q: How do you go out and socialize with the team, then?
Olivea: I tell them I have a disease. I go. I?m the designated driver. It is what it is. I can?t hide. I?m not going to be a hermit. I?ll be the one holding the keys. It really doesn?t bother me. Alcohol really wasn?t my thing, so it?s not a big deal. I?m just trying not to put anything in my system.
Q: Did you know that your family knew about your problems?
Olivea: No, I thought I was doing a pretty good job of hiding it.